‘‘Spirit within, grant me the serenity
to allow life to unfold in divine order,
the courage to act from truth and love,
and the wisdom to know when to release and when to rise.’’
There are two words that can transform your spiritual practice, your relationships, and your inner peace: Allow it.
In the tradition of New Thought, where the mind is the gateway to divine power and personal transformation, these words are more than advice; they are a spiritual instruction. Allow it invites us into the deep waters of surrender, conscious awareness, and radical self-responsibility. It speaks not of giving up, but of giving over to divine intelligence, a greater flow, and a more peaceful way of being.
Letting Go of the Illusion of Control
So much of our suffering stems from trying to control things that are not ours to control: other people's behavior, the pace of change, outcomes we want but can’t force into existence. Allow it is a release valve for the anxiety of over-control. It interrupts the pattern of fixing, managing, and reacting. Instead, it reminds us that the only thing we are here to govern is ourselves.
When we say Allow it, we let life be what it is. We trust that the Universe is not broken, that people are allowed to be where they are on their journey, and that our well-being does not hinge on anyone else behaving differently.
The Power of Non-Resistance
New Thought often draws from the teachings of Jesus, Emerson, and metaphysical science, where resistance is seen as the root of suffering. What we resist persists. What we try to suppress often grows stronger. Allow it is a way of stepping aside from the war with what is.
This does not mean accepting injustice or tolerating abuse. It means that we stop wasting our energy fighting reality and start responding from a grounded, empowered place. It is the difference between reacting in fear and responding in faith.
“When you turn the other cheek, you turn away from ego and toward truth.”
"Let Them" Becomes "Allow It"
You may have heard the viral phrase, "Let them." Let them talk about you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them be late. Let them go. It is a permission slip for others to be who they are without derailing your peace.
Allow it goes even further. It becomes a holistic philosophy, a living practice that applies not only to other people but to your own emotions, your body, your past, and your future. Allow it when the doubt comes. Allow it when grief rises. Allow it when you make a mistake.
It is the daily recognition that everything you experience is an opportunity to practice presence. To return to yourself. To remember who you really are.
Inner Sovereignty: The Real Freedom
When we allow it, we reclaim our sovereignty. We step off the hamster wheel of blame and reactivity. We remember that the one thing we can always control is our attention.
This is where New Thought shines. It reminds us that thought creates reality, and that our thoughts are our responsibility. No one else gets to dictate the climate of your inner world unless you let them.
In practicing Allow it, we become deeply powerful. Not through force, but through clarity. Not by winning arguments, but by withdrawing from battles that don't serve our growth.
“Allowing doesn’t mean agreeing, it means choosing not to suffer over what you cannot change.”
Practicing Allow It in Daily Life
Here are some ways to bring this into your daily experience:
Morning intention: Begin the day by affirming, "Today, I allow life to unfold. I will not resist what I cannot control. I will respond with peace."
Conflict moments: When you feel triggered, pause. Inhale deeply, say to yourself, Allow it, and ask, "What am I being invited to learn right now?"
Emotional waves: When sadness, frustration, or fear rise, resist the urge to push it away. Instead, breathe into it. Allow it. Let it teach you, pass through you, and dissolve on its own time.
Relationship dynamics: When someone acts in a way that frustrates or hurts you, instead of jumping to correct or control, remind yourself, Allow it. Let them have their process. Your peace doesn’t depend on their behavior.
The Spiritual Technology of Surrender
Surrender is often misunderstood as passivity. But in New Thought, surrender is a spiritual technology. It is the art of releasing resistance and aligning with higher truth. It is laying down the weapons of worry, control, and reactivity and picking up the tools of awareness, compassion, and clarity.
To allow something is not to agree with it, condone it, or enjoy it. It is simply to recognize that it exists and to stop trying to bend it to your will. It is the foundation of peace.
"Allow It" as a Mantra
Use it like a mantra.
When someone cuts you off in traffic: Allow it.
When the meeting runs late: Allow it.
When your child throws a tantrum: Allow it.
When your plans fall apart: Allow it.
This is not spiritual bypassing. It is spiritual grounding. You are not ignoring problems; you are choosing not to add unnecessary suffering to them. You are staying connected to your highest self.
Healing Through Acceptance
Acceptance is the gateway to healing. When we fight reality, we exhaust ourselves. When we accept it, we can finally begin to change from a place of wisdom rather than resistance.
Allow it creates space for miracles. For new insights. For grace to enter. The moment you stop fighting the moment, you begin to align with the flow of life.
New Thought teaches that what we focus on expands. By allowing what is, we loosen its hold. We take back our creative power and use it wisely.
Final Thoughts: Your Peace Is Not Negotiable
In a chaotic world, the greatest rebellion is inner peace. Allow it is not about letting the world walk over you. It is about choosing not to be dragged by every emotion, every opinion, every twist in the road.
It is how you protect your peace. It is how you reclaim your power. It is how you walk through life with grace.
You are not here to manage everyone else. You are here to master yourself.
Say the words. Say them often. Let them be your anchor.
Allow it.
Further Reading
The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer
Spiritual Economics by Eric Butterworth
This Thing Called You by Ernest Holmes
The Art of Letting Go by Richard Rohr
Ask and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks
I love everything this says, especially now with all that is going on - the anger, the confusion, the fear, the hopelessness. Thank you Michael 💖🙏✨
Beautifully written, Michael. We are quick to anger, slow to reason, and often wrong when we do reason. "Allowing" buys us time, saves energy, and enables our subconscious to rend assistance to our reason. Surrender, on the other hand, can make you a slave of the status quo.