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Plant-Based Times's avatar

Great post on this subject! I've been researching this as well, and it's fascinating how multiple social and psychological forces are at play. Studies suggest that vegaphobia—the irrational fear or dislike of vegans—is often more prevalent among individuals with conservative or right-wing beliefs.

This dynamic reminds me of concepts like DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) and Victimized Bully Syndrome (VBS). While DARVO describes how psychological abusers deflect accountability when confronted, VBS operates differently: the cries of victimhood come first, justifying bullying or aggressive behaviors under the guise of 'self-defense.'

For example, many meat-eaters claim they're constantly victimized by governments, society, or the media, which they use to rationalize pre-emptive retaliation. It's the 'I’m a victim, so I’m entitled to respond aggressively' mindset. VBS really sheds light on why some individuals react so strongly to plant-based eaters. Thanks for opening up this discussion!

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Gabriela Lerner's avatar

I haven’t been researching it but have had personal experience of this phenomenon. Friends who were interested in me going plant-based 13 years ago for health reasons (then quickly became vegan), are now often opposed, make jokes, or campaign against veganism. It’s like they aren’t challenged by someone who eats for health, but are challenged by someone taking a moral stand against animal cruelty and slaughter.

I’m finding it hard at times to navigate. I can get triggered and wanting to have the argument out! Simultaneously I want to be kind and non-judgemental. Can we really be non-judgemental?

Would we be kind and non-judgemental if we witnessed the murder or rape if a human being?

So it really is a very fine line we walk all the while trying to stay sane in an insane world.

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